Taylor曾回忆道：
"How can somebody that seems so strong have such a horrible, horrible weakness? Something that is killing her."“
为什么一个看起来那么健康强壮的人会有这么可怕的弱点？这些东西在一点一点侵蚀她。”。
她说"I always thought that one of the biggest overlooked problems American girls face is insecurity."
大概全美国的女生最大的被忽视的问题是缺乏安全感。
在后来的一个采访里，小美女说道“那时候我突然意识到，那些你以为很坚强的人其实没有那么坚强。那段时间很难挨，我写下了这首歌，并且帮她一起度过了难关，她现在挺好的。”
Taylor说：
"One of my best friends is absolutely beautiful. She goes to beauty pageants and wins everything.
我的一位朋友长得非常漂亮。她去参加那些选美比赛，总是能赢。
Girls want to be her and guys want to be with her.
女孩儿们都想成为她那样的人，而男儿们都想和她在一起。
I wrote this song the day I found out about her eating disorder.
我写这首歌是因为那天我发现她的饮食障碍。
It completely blew my mind, and this one was tough to write, because I wasn't just telling some sad story. This was real.
那使我非常震惊。这种题材很不好写，因为我不想讲悲伤的故事。但这事却是事实。
This song is basically about the girls I know, and the difficult things I saw them go through.
这首歌就是根据我认识的这个女孩儿以及她所经历的痛苦写成的。
I've never seen this song as a lecture. It's really about how no matter what my friends go through, I'm always going to love them."
我从未把这首歌当成演讲或什么，它仅仅是告诉大家，不管我的朋友们经历了什么，我永远爱他们。”